Prototype for “Protesting”

Exercising outer control – Losing control

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: beating, blowing up, defending, defying, denying, fights, hyperactivity, imposing, insulting, lack of self-control, losing control, manipulating, melting down, misbehaving, neglecting, opposing, outburst, pressuring, protesting, regressive behavior, resisting injustice, restlessness, self-protecting, yelling, hitting, Bitterness exasperation fury indignation irritation madness outburst resentment temper violence blowup explosion ire storm tantrum upset rage swearing fighting excluding judging intolerance tolerating differences correcting commanding

Prototype for “Counter-attacking” (a)

Attacking – Counterattacking

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: attacking, counterattacking, frustration management anger management beating, blowing up, defending, defying, denying, fights, hyperactivity, imposing, insulting, lack of self-control, losing control, manipulating, melting down, misbehaving, neglecting, opposing, outburst, pressuring, protesting, regressive behavior, resisting injustice, restlessness, self-protecting, yelling, hitting, Bitterness exasperation fury indignation irritation madness outburst resentment temper violence blowup explosion ire storm tantrum upset rage swearing fighting

Prototype for “(Counter) Attacking” (b)

Disqualifying or invalidating response – Attacking or hitting

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: frustration management anger management beating, blowing up, defending, defying, denying, fights, hyperactivity, imposing, insulting, lack of self-control, losing control, manipulating, melting down, misbehaving, neglecting, opposing, outburst, pressuring, protesting, regressive behavior, resisting injustice, restlessness, self-protecting, yelling, hitting, Bitterness exasperation fury indignation irritation madness outburst resentment temper violence blowup explosion ire storm tantrum upset rage swearing fighting

Prototype for “Caving”

Tolerating aggression (caving) – Attacking

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: abandoningaggressionattackingbeatingblowing updefendingdefyingdominatingfightingfightsfurygiving ingiving uphittingimposinginsultingirritationmanipulatingminimizingmissing learningprotectingrageself-protectingstormsubmittingswearingthreateningthreatstoleratingupsetviolencewithdrawingyelling

Prototype for “Ignoring”

Blaming and Criticizing – Avoiding, Distancing, Defending , Ignoring

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: accusingangeravoidingchasingclamming upcommandingcondemningdistancingfrustrationIgnoringimposinginsistingnaggingnon-compliancenon-complyingoverwhelmingshuttingthreateningyelling

Prototype for “Cheating”

Demanding honesty and threatening punishment – Lying or Stealing

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: accusingantisocialavoidingblamingcheatingdenyingdishonestyevadinghidinglyingnaggingpressuringpunishingstealingsuspiciousthreatening

Prototype for “Insecurity”

Questioning the other – Questioning oneself

Often associated with Presented Concerns such as: anguish anxiety clamming up distress getting anxious insecurity invalidation isolating lack of confidence questioning self-esteem scrutinizing hiding fear worry concern doubt panic timidity judging criticizing excluding distancing tolerating differences

Slightly different PIPs possibly feeding “insecurity”

Slightly different PIPs possibly feeding “cheating”

Slightly different PIPs possibly feeding “ignoring”

Ignoring PIPs
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